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Mila Webb ([personal profile] m_cobweb) wrote2002-11-08 11:15 am

FYI

I do not have to like everything a person does to still like that person. I can be uncomfortable and still cope. I can be angry without giving up on a friendship. Although the possibilities for misunderstanding may seem endless, I can keep hoping.
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[identity profile] m-cobweb.livejournal.com 2002-11-08 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, you saw my post. I saw your e-mail right after I posted, so thought I'd get rid of it. Ha! ;-) Clarification is good, anyways.

[identity profile] rubylou.livejournal.com 2002-11-08 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure what you're referring to (and I don't need to know, quite frankly), but seriously: Do what you need to to be true to your best self. You needn't justify being a steadfast friend, nor a person who can care despite difficulties. Just be sure to be as loving and thoughtful of YOURSELF as well.

[identity profile] vulture23.livejournal.com 2002-11-08 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)
What she said.

Nothing wrong with recognizing someone's faults and still caring about them. In fact, that's much healthier than pretending those faults don't exist. Just take precautions that their faults don't drag *you* down as well. (I know you know this, so this is just friendly encouragement. :) )



what she said

[identity profile] vorona.livejournal.com 2002-11-08 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Copy. Paste.

[identity profile] m-cobweb.livejournal.com 2002-11-08 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I had to stop and think about these comments for a bit, internalize what's been said. And--yeah. Thank you for saying them.

One may like sharks, but one would also be advised to wear shark-repellant when swimming in risky waters!