still a mystery, no longer a bump

Nov. 2nd, 2025 07:57 pm
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In the weeks between the initial ultrasound that produced the "we have no idea what this is and we're worried" result and the scheduled ultrasound with biopsy, the bump shrank, stopped being red, stopped hurting and got in fact so small that, once I got there, there wasn't enough to biopsy. So the medical people are all very confident that I have nothing to worry about, so yay.

Other than that, well, I've got three shows coming up, and finally saw Kpop Demon Hunters which is in fact an excellent flick. (Though I don't quite understand watching it 30 times like someone I know.) No prior knowledge of kpop necessary, though there are visual jokes in particular that will be more obvious if you are. Good tunes, nicely done demons, good voice casting, and applause must be given for the concept. 

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Nov. 2nd, 2025 12:45 pm
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Our Halloween was very quiet. We had plans to get window seats at our local brewpub and watch the massive community trick-or-treat event, but the skies opened up around 3pm with a torrential downpour. We stayed at home and watched movies.

The other reason our Halloween was so low-key is because of a Fri-Sun Magic: the Gathering tournament at the local convention center, and the Stroppy One was in attendance to do the World Famous M:tG Artist thing and sign people's cards in exchange for money. These shows are great and yet exhausting for him; on Saturday there was never a break in his line, he was there for over 9 hours, was the last artist to leave, and came home with three commissioned sketches to do. This has become the norm for shows for him, in part because he only goes to ones that have a specific tournament format that focuses on the expansions that he has the most art in, but also because he's one of the most prolific artists in the game.

I went to a friends' low-key party last night, which was wonderful. Costumes were optional, so I just pulled out my fancy witch hat and covered my under eye circles with glitter. Did you know that there are now glitter temporary tattoos?! That you can cut apart and layer for the coverage you want?! And the glitter does not budge, to the point that it took several rounds of jojoba oil to remove.



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I did some last-minute gothy impulse shopping thanks to mailing list discount codes: this belt from Videnoir, and this over-the-top ruffled collar from Devil Fashion. And then an Etsy seller I follow sent me a massive discount code, so this giant onyx pendant is headed my way. (It's the store that I purchased my massive labradorite pendant from, so I know the quality is good.)

a traditional Halloween

Nov. 1st, 2025 10:34 am
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I went to Funny Lady's Halloween party down at her new place in Georgetown. There were no hot queer makeouts or fearing for my life this time, but I still had a perfectly pleasant time in the Devil Girl outfit.

The house is decorated with clear enthusiasm for the – How do I put this? – kitschier, googie-er, space-age variety of mid-century modern. I can definitely see that coming from Funny Lady's husband P; it suits them. I'm happy that they've finally bought a place, even though it's at the opposite end of the city from me.

As I pulled up to their place in a Lyft, I could hear a marching band playing a few blocks away. I knew Georgetown was, characteristically, having a Halloween parade. (They love marching bands down there.) That means FL & P are within an easy, level walk of Georgetown's commercial district on Airport Way. It's not Capitol Hill, their old neighborhood, or even quite Fremont*, but there's plenty of fun to be had near them. I predict some epic two-bus trips in my future.

I may have talked too much about my plans for my face and how they happened. They are, nevertheless, a big deal to me.

I didn't stand so much in the Grand National boots that I wrecked my feet. I'm not hung over. I got enough sleep last night. On call was mercifully cooperative last night. I feel as if I've been blessed by the old gods.



*Fremont: a knack for visual theatrics, live entertainment, the best eats. Georgetown: actual working artists and occasional bikers, rougher-looking. White Center: up and coming, with plenty of queers and a slogan of "Not so white, not so centered." Fremont was once Georgetown. Capitol Hill was once White Center. What changed things? The tech industry.

shiny accidents

Oct. 31st, 2025 07:43 am
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On call has been kicking my butt the last couple of nights, and it's only partly my fault. Basically, we're dealing with the collateral damage from Google's recent change in tactics to thwart scrapers that feed LLMs ("AI scrapers").

So on less-than-ideal sleep, I went for shiny drinks last night. That's why I passed up an occasion to be the Devil Girl and wore my lowest key latex LBD when everyone else was dressed up. I had a major ulterior motive: meeting someone there from a dating site. She begged off due to a migraine, though.

Not to worry! I spotted Rubbermaid across the room, unexpectedly returned from Europe. I all but squeed. I told her to expect private communication from me about just the two of us getting together.

So yes, it was a night of synchronicity. Splendid!

bummer trifecta

Oct. 28th, 2025 09:41 pm
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Bummer #1: I woke up at 0310 and couldn't get back to sleep.

Bummer #2: I broke something at work, and I wasn't around to fix it because I was at the dentist.

Bummer #3: The Halloween party that I wanted to go to so badly has been cancelled due to the hosts' need to recover from COVID.

But! I have backup and other plans for this week, next week, and the week after that. So take that, bummers!

Wow! That's a lot of words!

Oct. 26th, 2025 10:04 pm
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I stumbled on a list of word counts of famous novels and discovered that my longest piece of fanfic is approximately 16,000 words longer than Moby Dick!

dancing in the dark

Oct. 26th, 2025 12:18 pm
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The weather has been vile around Puget Sound for the last few days, with lots of rain and especially wind. So it wasn't all that surprising that about an hour after I arrived, the Mercury lost power along with big chunks of the city.

So what did we do? Hung out and talked for a while as the staff scrambled to put up light strings. It was... kind of great, actually. We could hear each other! I wish I could say that the darkness made everyone look sexier, but it mostly made everyone nearly invisible. One of the staff found a misplaced flogger. I volunteered as tribute.

The staff eventually got their hands on a "Burner" battery pack with enough juice to run the sound system, if at a reduced volume. Booty shaking ensued, even if it wasn't my booty. You can't keep a good club down. And people steadily arrived well after the power had gone out and that had been announced online.

The only reason I left early was that it started to get chilly down there, and I was wearing the Devil Girl outfit minus the murder Grand National boots, i.e. bare shoulders and a latex pencil skirt. The transit was running fine.

Speaking of transit, my trip total for yesterday, including my trip to Tacoma, is eight bus trips and three train trips. I think that's a personal record. OK, I didn't need one of those train trips, but mayunn, I wanted to go home yesterday afternoon. I feel as if I'm single-handedly keeping three area transit agencies afloat.

a journey through exotic Tacoma, WA

Oct. 25th, 2025 06:27 pm
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I took a planned trip to Tacoma today to consult about a clothing commission with a seamstress of vast experience and competence who wants to start working in a material that's new to her. One that I, unusually, happen to own a lot of. Ahem. More about this in a few weeks when she's done. (She said three, which astounded me. She is not to rush on my account.)

But that wasn't mostly what I wanted to write about. What I wanted to write about is Tacoma. One of the first things any resident of Seattle and its immediate neighbors will notice about Tacoma is that there are many more old* buildings, not just in proportion but in absolute number. Like, a lot. Tacoma Girl says that's because it's hard to tear down old buildings in Tacoma. I knew that Seattle's historic preservation ordinance dated from when the Hotel Seattle was demolished and replaced with the notorious "Sinking Ship" parking garage.

But guess what? Tacoma's historic preservation ordinance was enacted a very few years later. Is Tacoma's ordinance tougher than Seattle's? I honestly can't be bothered to find that out, but I doubt it. First, the prevalence of older buildings extends to single-family residences, and I'm not sure the ordinances even apply to those, though I believe they do in Gainesville, FL. Victorian single family homes in Tacoma don't look immaculately maintained the way the are in Port Townsend, WA or, sometimes, San Francisco**. Second, Seattle experienced two economic booms in the last century that Tacoma mostly didn't: the aviation industry starting during Word War II, and the tech industry starting in the 1980s. Tacoma apparently did get a piece of the action during the Klondike gold rush of 1897, but judging by the number of architectural monuments lying around I don't think Tacoma's piece was as big as Seattle's. In other words, there was simply more demand for new buildings in Seattle during times when people didn't think twice about knocking old ones down.

And other things: one big pro-Trump flag on a pole in front of someone's house, but dozens of houses decorated for Halloween. Tacoma goes hard for Halloween, which kind of fits with their reputation. I approve whole-heartedly. Seattle, you need to raise your game.

One last thing: the seamstress was correct that Tacoma's mass transit is... not fabulous. The drivers are righteous, but the frequency isn't. Ditto the long-haul buses between the two cities, at least on Saturdays. Moral: if I'm going to visit people in Tacoma, at least half the trip should be on a Friday if possible. That's six bus trips and one train trip for me today. And the day isn't over.



*By American standards, meaning 19th and early 20th century. Europeans are cordially invited to shut up. This means you too, Brits.
**San Francisco has a huge number of "Vics" as they're called there, so they're not quite as special as the ones around Puget Sound, even if I do love the look of them. Any Victorian house anywhere in the world is surely a maintenance nightmare, but western Washington state has a much less forgiving climate than the Bay Area.

the best use of an afternoon off

Oct. 25th, 2025 08:40 am
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I had yesterday afternoon off, so I jumped on the buses and rode most of the considerable length of Seattle for lunch with [personal profile] leenerella.

How can you tell that Georgetown hasn't turned into Fremont yet? Georgetown still has its biker bar, Smarty Pants. Mind you, it's full of motorcycle-themed art because this is Georgetown. And the food's not fancy but perfectly acceptable.

We talked about the afterbummer from the worst of COVID-19. We talked about Burning Man; you know I pumped her for information. We talked about relationships. We talked about our kids. We talked about friends we haven't seen in years. She generously drove me to Uwajimaya to pick up the sake for a certain upcoming Halloween party* on the way home.

It had been too long, and it was so nice that I hope we don't wait that long again.

Shallow fashion details: We were two distinct flavors of goth, she in a black jacket with padded shoulders & black trousers, I in a red knee-length dress from Blackwood Castle with a high collar and ruffled hem with equestrian boots. We could have been in one of the Stroppy One's illustrations.



*Aw, yeah.

Database maintenance

Oct. 25th, 2025 08:42 am
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Good morning, afternoon, and evening!

We're doing some database and other light server maintenance this weekend (upgrading the version of MySQL we use in particular, but also probably doing some CDN work.)

I expect all of this to be pretty invisible except for some small "couple of minute" blips as we switch between machines, but there's a chance you will notice something untoward. I'll keep an eye on comments as per usual.

Ta for now!

in which I live the lesbian life

Oct. 23rd, 2025 06:45 am
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Susie Bright once said that there's no such thing as anonymous sex when you're a lesbian because every lesbian in your city either is one of your exes or knows one of them. Well, this finally happened to me last night on Feeld. It's not a total loss, though: she agreed to come to the next latex gathering with me.

Meanwhile, I've been invited to the West Seattle munch by the lady from the Blue Moon. For you non-local folks, West Seattle is nearly at the opposite corner of this sprawling city from the Devil Girl house, and is notoriously hard to get to in and of itself. Getting around on transit doesn't make that any better*, but I can do this with just one bus transfer, and I will.



*The 3 line of the light rail is supposed to serve West Seattle, but it's still in the planning stages. I know this because the Tickler is involved with them for work. Small world.
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Yesterday was Miss Erzabet No Biting's first vet appointment since right before we moved. Not only was it time, but we were hoping for information or answers about her inappropriate voiding (how the vet referred to her peeing and pooping anywhere she felt like), and (what worried me most) the very slight intermittent tremor of her head that has developed.

The vet's diagnosis, now confirmed by the blood tests: she has developed hyperthyroidism. I'm waiting on the call from the vet where he'll give me more information. I did some quick research and it looks like the two main treatments are either daily meds or having radioactive iodine injected into the thyroid, which involves a multi-day stay at the vet. I still kinda-sorta prefer that option to meds, because she isn't easy to pill. But then again, how will she react to being somewhere strange and away from me? The last time we did that (when she was at a kitty emergency place because of difficulty breathing) she refused to eat or drink, and spent two days hidden under the blanket in the cage. 

Shockingly, she was such a good girl about going to the vet! Previous trips involved her fighting being put in the carrier, peeing herself, and being completely silent and hyperventilating. There was none of that this trip! She was very vocal, but didn't sound distressed, thank goodness. It took her about three minutes of being home before she forgave me and was trying to herd me to the couch for cuddles.


Health update

Oct. 22nd, 2025 07:49 am
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Went yesterday for my annual physical and vaccinations. I’m pleased to report that I’m in better health than I was this time last year! I got my flu and COVID vaccinations, and after drowsing off and on all afternoon and evening yesterday, I'm feeling human again. Most of my labs are within normal limits, and the ones that aren't are much closer to normal that they had been. The only issue that needs any sort of intervention is I got a referral to podiatry for hammertoes. (Sing it with me: "Think it's time to Stop! Hammertoes!")

I hope you're all doing well, and if you have the means to follow up on your healthcare, I hope you're doing it.

in the wrong time zone

Oct. 21st, 2025 06:29 am
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[personal profile] sistawendy
Good: I got a decent night's sleep last night, over seven hours.
Bad: It ended before 0315.

Those of you who can do arithmetic have realized that I turned out the light around 2000 last night. That's not ideal, but it's still better than the night before. Is it now taking me two nights, at least, to recover from a late Saturday night? Or do I need more time every day with the happy lamp, currently glowing away right under my laptop?

It's not that cold yet, thank Goddess. It's not unusually rainy for this time of year. I can't explain the strong urge to hibernate that's hit me this month. Whiskey tango foxtrot, over? If this is just How It's Going To Be every fall from now on, I'm not ready for that.

Time for yoga. With the happy lamp aimed at me.