Nun savors a schadenfreude sandwich.

Nov. 30th, 2025 07:55 am
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I went to the Mercury briefly last night, briefly because I started yawning even before 2300, even with a nap and extra caffeine yesterday. I spread the news about my impending surgery, natch.

But what really got my attention was [personal profile] jengalicious's ex, who arrived alone. Nobody even spoke to him that I saw. Sure, I've been coming alone to the Merc for twenty-three years, but I always find someone to talk to. If this becomes a trend I may dance a stompy or spider-plucking jig. Dude, have you tried not being a terrible person? It's a choice.

Oh: Frankie & Jo's oatnog flavor – vegan "ice cream", if you'll recall – is pretty great! Ah luv me some egg nog, and this is the kind I could share with, for example, the Tickler.

Final update on AO3 tag wrangling

Nov. 30th, 2025 09:44 am
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I finally got an answer on my AO3 tag wrangling application. I was not selected. I'm feeling pretty pissed-off and crappy and unwanted over the whole thing. I'll be over here having a pity party today; feel free not to come — I don't even like interacting with me when I'm in this kind of mood.

ETA: A couple of hours later, I'm feeling somewhat better.

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Hello, friends! It's about to be December again, and you know what that means: the fact I am posting this actually before December 1 means [staff profile] karzilla reminded me about the existence of linear time again. Wait, no -- well, yes, but also -- okay, look, let me back up and start again: it's almost December, and that means it's time for our annual December holiday points bonus.

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It's tough all over.

Nov. 29th, 2025 07:44 am
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I spent a couple of hours yesterday at the annual Buy Nothing Day gathering at the home of my grad school classmates E & G. Yes, they're doing all right aside from G's back, but:
  • Their kid hasn't launched.
  • E has noticed that the younger generation is facing hurdles that would be ridiculous if they weren't enraging.
  • E observes that the job market, even in the tech industry, is ass. Welcome to America, nerds.
Yeah, all those bullet points sound awfully familiar. Aside from being a transgender lesbian sadomasochist, I'm them. On the one hand, it feels good not to be alone. On the other, damn, I wish things were going better for them.

There was a table full of young trans adults. That's right: E & G have at least one trans kid. I wish I could claim responsibility, but I haven't been in their lives enough for that. Good on E & G for being decent about it.

Classmate L's son, who was dubbed the Widget right around the time of his birth, is over 30 with a kid of his own. How does this keep happening? Yeah, I know how it happens, but you know what I mean. L's ex, who also went to school with all of us, has been all over the local raver & Burner events for years. I resisted the temptation to mention him.

Oh: there was one dude there who I thought had done something absolutely unforgivable long ago. I need to find out what is, or was, up. Luckily, E proposed coffee.

Got my early evening date cancelled due to date's illness. Le sigh. Did not go out because, honestly, I didn't feel like it. I'm not adjusting well to the cold & dark this year.

what to do with a long weekend

Nov. 27th, 2025 06:40 pm
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I have slept for eleven out of the last twenty-four hours, and now that I think about it, thirteen out of the last thirty hours. I mean, I haven't been staying up really late or getting up really early since last week. What's going on?

Edited to add: no happy lamp today because I slept well past sunrise. Also, I've only had one cup of tea today. Gosh, that may explain everything.

Obligatory where to get my stuff post

Nov. 26th, 2025 04:39 pm
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I’ve got a Publications page, but some of the books there are out of print, and I don’t expect people to shell out for single issues of a magazine just because I’ve got a story in it. But the holiday shopping season has started disturbingly early this year, so here’s me getting in on it. Here’s where to get books that I have stories in, including the just-released Shakespeare Adjacent anthology:

Shakespeare Adjacent, an anthology of Shakespeare homages from 2 Jokers Publishing. My story, “Bitter Waters; or, the Villain’s Appointment” (that link goes to an opening excerpt) sets Much Ado About Nothing in a future Columbia Gorge (further) altered by climate change.

Two Hour Transport 2, an anthology of short fiction by writers associated with the SFF reading series of the same name–including me, as well as Nisi Shawl, Karen Joy Fowler, Eileen Gunn, and many other writers I’m delighted to share a TOC with. My story, “Song of the Water People,” is told from the point of view of a pod of Southern Resident Killer Whales who live in the Salish Sea.

From Bayou to Abyss: Examining John Constantine, Hellblazer is a collection of articles about everyone’s favorite morally gray magician. I had great fun researching real-world occult antecedents for the stuff we see John (and others) do in the comic, though real-world occultists would (justifiably) say that I just scratched the surface. Hey, I had a word count. Lots of other fun essays in here too.

Retellings of the Inland Seas, an anthology of short fiction placing Ancient Greek stories, myths, and legends in speculative settings. My story, “The Sea of Stars,” examines how sailors of the 5th century BCE might deal with a communication that seems to come from the gods.

Future Games, an anthology of short fiction on the themes of gaming and sport. My story “Kip, Running,” which originally appeared in the webzine Strange Horizons, is included, along with stories by Cory Doctorow, George R.R. Martin, and Kate Wilhelm.

Share and enjoy!

ravey vicissitudes

Nov. 26th, 2025 12:37 pm
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I hit the Blue Moon for another open decks night, and it was a very mixed bag: either excellent or couldn't-wait-for-it-to-end, nothing mediocre. Ah well, you get what you pay for, which in the strict sense of cover is zero in this case. (Yeah, I always get at least one beer because I want the night to stick around.)

There are only two regular open decks nights in the whole city, the aforementioned and one just south of town in White Center. Brit Jean, the promoter at the Blue Moon, proudly points out that hers is at least twice a month. The other is only monthly.

I may be indulging in (even?) more bleepy goodness than usual in the next month or two: a favorite venue is about to get demolished for redevelopment. Brit uses it a lot, but she seems to be taking everything in stride. She points out that it's a minor miracle that it lasted as long as it did.

Very much looking forward to a long weekend starting in four and a half hours. Sleep, outings, and Shin Black ramen with seitan.
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My story “Bitter Waters; or, the Villain’s Appointment” is out now as part of the Shakespeare Adjacent anthology from 2 Jokers Publishing!

If you backed the Kickstarter, first of all, THANK YOU. Secondly, rewards are being disbursed–see the publisher’s updates on KS for details there.

And, you can order a printed or digital copy of the book, here! Happy reading!

Relation and reciprocity

Nov. 25th, 2025 10:37 pm
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I was going to get this up yesterday, hence the category, but didn’t finish it until today. Yesterday wound up being super busy, including onboarding for one of those contractor gigs where you have to set up accounts on several different platforms in order to work. It’s a setup that both makes me feel old, and reminds me of my library days when we had four different systems crosswalking just to accurately convey our journal holdings to patrons.

I was also finishing up reading Robert Moor’s new book In Trees, in order to review it for Library Journal. Like a lot of nature-oriented books I’ve read recently, Moor comes in heavy on themes of relationality and reciprocity. These aren’t novel, exactly, but I’ve noticed them getting more emphasis ever since Robin Wall Kimmerer’s excellent and affecting Braiding Sweetgrass, which many of these books (Moor’s included) cite as an influence.

It influenced me as well, both when I first read it and during the first year of the COVID-19 pandemic, when I managed to escape the stuck-at-home-staring-at-screens phenomenon by taking off for nine months to Wilderness Awareness School. Constant masking and daily temperature checks notwithstanding, it was still a better way to spend those nine months than just about anything else I could imagine. I got to be with people. And trees.

It was an immense privilege, and it shouldn’t be. As people in the Immersion program itself pointed out, having to actively seek nature connection, as though we aren’t all connected to nature all of the time whether or not we’re aware of it, is indicative of a problem, one that has deeply pragmatic and material effects. I do happen to believe that sitting under a tree once in awhile or just noticing the birds outside the window are Good for us as humans, but as I’ve written before, not doing these things makes it so much easier not to notice that we’re driving the world off a cliff. The planet has survived mass extinctions before, but there’s a reason why some writers describe our current situation as the Sixth Extinction. And if we keep going like we have been, we’re going to kill off the species that make our own existences possible. Humans are the most adaptable creatures to ever live on Earth—I feel pretty confident saying that, despite the length of time life has existed on this planet. But whether we can adapt to the circumstances we ourselves are now creating is an open question.

And even if we could, the situation still sucks. I think people know it, too; it’s one reason fake AI stories about wild animals doing charming things are so popular on social media, to my everlasting consternation. My theory goes something like this: so many of us humans are so disconnected from the world in which we live that we view it as fundamentally unknowable outside the narrow slice that we understand. This makes us uncomfortable, so we gravitate toward relatable stories that present realities we find intuitively comprehensible. (This is also why fake news is both so seductive and so prevalent.) But precisely because of that disconnection, we aren’t equipped to recognize the unreality when we encounter it, and the people spreading it have a vested interest in not describing it as fiction.

Kimmerer talks a lot about reciprocity in Braiding Sweetgrass and in her more recent book, The Serviceberry. In its most fundamental and accessible form, this is the simple act of recognition of the necessary give and take within which each of us exists. We live, so we gotta eat. Sooner or later, other things will eat us. From this everything else flows. We exist and participate in a web of relationships whether we know it or not; this is as observable as the raccoons raiding our trash cans. Taking the time to make those observations begins for many of us as a conscious act, but the more you do it, the more habitual it becomes, the more you notice, and the more those connections become a thing that you’re aware of.

It’s a simple, small thing, but it changes so much. Among other things, it rejects the framing of human and planetary survival as a matter of completely abandoning modern ways of life. (Good luck getting people to do that, anyway.) Even people living in places so remote that calling them off grid is to understate the case have cell phones.

The hard part is getting this to happen on a big enough scale to make an actual difference, and creating space for people to do the things that will effect change. One of the first things you notice once you start seeing existence this way is how much capitalism in its current form makes everything into a state of emergency. What better way to ensure that no one has time to even notice what’s wrong, never mind do anything about it? Back in the late 1990s a book came out called Simple Things Won’t Save the Earth. That title was a response to the idea that individual consumer choices would make even the smallest dent in responding to the actual emergency then and now in progress.

So why would such a simple, small thing as a change in perception be any different?

I don’t really know, to be honest. It’s something I’ve been mulling over for at least five years, now, and probably longer.

But I do think it’s necessary, and inevitable. I’m just hoping it happens at a significant enough scale, before it really is too late.

Addendum to yesterday's QOTD

Nov. 25th, 2025 08:39 pm
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An addendum to yesterday's QOTD from Jim Henson: When I was growing up, Jim Henson meant a lot to me. Not only because I enjoyed the shows and movies he created, but also also because I knew that he was also from Mississippi, so seeing what he was able to accomplish gave me hope that I would be able to rise above my geographic origins and do something worthwhile. When seemingly everyone who produces everything you enjoy or admire is from someplace else, you cling that much harder to the one example you have who came from the same place you do.

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Nov. 25th, 2025 11:13 am
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- My endoscopy and colonoscopy came back all clear, yay! 

- I expected to sleep after coming home from the procedures. AHAHAHAHAHAHA no my body didn't want to cooperate. And I certainly didn't sleep during the hours of drinking the prep solution. I ended up being awake, with the exception of the procedures, for something like 36 hours. 0/10, do not recommend.

- The Madwoman in the Attic, during her usual meandering around the internet, found this fabric. She told me how many yards I needed for the high collar dress, and I gleefully bought some. Glow in the dark bats!

QOTD: Jim Henson on life goals

Nov. 24th, 2025 10:03 pm
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Presented without comment, except that I have always loved Jim Henson and I agree with this quote 100%:

"When I was young, my ambition was to be one of the people who made a difference in this world. My hope is to leave the world a little better for my having been there." - Jim Henson

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About a month ago, NMIXX came out with their latest sing, "Blue Valentine."

I loved it — I've listened to it so many times! One part of it really confused me, though: From the start of the prechorus (at 0:40) until the beginning of the chorus (at 0:56), the tempo suddenly drops, then has an accelerando until the chorus begins. But I was really confused, though, because the line "You'll always be my blue valentine" in the chorus took the same amount of the time as when the same line was sung at the beginning of the song, but it felt faster. Fortunately, when React to the K (a YouTube channel that feature classical and jazz music students reacting to K-pop songs) did their video reacting to this song, they had an entire section where Liam (a classical percussionist) explains what's happening rhythmically during the prechorus — it took him almost 2 minutes to explain what happened in that 16 seconds of the song, but to me, it was worth it — I'd listened to that part of the song over and over so many times trying to figure out what was happening there, so it was great to finally understand.

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Like a lot of people I suspect, I read E.B. White's children's novels as a kid--Charlotte's Web, Stuart Little, Trumpet of the Swan--and never quite made the transition to his other writing. When the current administration has the immense bad taste to name one of its immigration crackdowns "Operation Charlotte's Web," it's worth highlighting that White was a staunch antifascist.

I worked as an academic librarian for 18 years; I've long known that libraries are always being asked to do more with less, while having their remits so far stretched that it regularly stuns me when I meet someone who still thinks that all they do is lend books. Public libraries in particular have increasingly been expected to serve as the final catch in an ever-fraying social safety net. But Sharon Mattern's Extralibrary Loan demonstrates the many creative and forward-thinking ways that libraries are hewing to their original purpose. Not just a safety net but, as she puts it, civic infrastructure. It almost makes me want to work in the field again.

Earlier this week I was moved to listen to "Cult of Personality," the breakout hit that put the band Living Colour on the map way back in 1988. It's still a banger of a song, full of everything I loved about rock & roll back then and still do: crunchy guitar, killer bass line, a rolling thunder of drums. If anything, the lyrics are even more incisive and observant today. In 2018, Ringer writer Alan Siegel dug into the genesis of the song, Living Colour's formation and career, and why "Cult of Personality" still resonates.

Christopher Brown, author of A Natural History of Empty Lots, writes in “An Ofrenda for the Killdeer” about the wildness in edge places, a theme he often explores and which I am beginning to in my own writing. Where I live in Seattle—have lived for 25 years without really noticing, until the art of tracking opened up new ways of seeing—there are all sorts of edge places like this. I’m hoping to explore a few in the coming months.

Pope Leo XIV didn't actually throw a rave, but this is almost as good:

As a cradle Catholic who fell away in my teens, my feelings toward the Church are...complex, to say the least. But I've got to say, as devotional music goes, this knocks CCM right out of the park.

FFS is on.

Nov. 21st, 2025 04:19 pm
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I have paid the deposit for facial feminization surgery. It was... a lot. I have well and truly pulled the trigger. Date requested: April 28th, 2026.

Um, wow. I'm feeling SRS BSNS right now.

I'm reminded of something Jack Paar said about being a late-night talk show host: "It was like hitting myself in the thumb with a hammer every day. It felt so good when I stopped!" That's how I expect to feel after I'm healed up from the surgery. The Sculptor says that there's a long tail on healing from FFS; it can take up to a year to reach the optimum. But I'm used to waiting.
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Music adjacent to economics

On BBC Newshour yesterday, I heard a story (which I can't find online at the moment) about Kraftwerk's instruments and equipment going up for auction. Besides the historical value because of their association with Kraftwerk, many of these items were inherently valuable because they're rare examples of early electronic musical instruments. The vocoder used on "The Robots" sold for about $200,000. The expert they talked to said that there were only about 20-30 surviving examples of this model of vocoder. I hope that these instrument went to musicians who will put them to use and not to tech bros who'll put them on a shelf.

Music adjacent to politics

Due to rising tensions between China and Japan (which I am forced to admit that I was unaware of), one of the cultural disputes going on between the countries is a petition in Japan asking Aespa member Ningning (who is Chinese) not to come to Japan. At the same time, Japanese performers who have built a portion of their career in China have been going out of their way to express pro-China feelings. I'm going to have read more about this situation. If any of you have a link to an article that explains what's going on, I'd appreciate it.

Music adjacent to fandom and statistics

In an article related to Blackpink members' performance at the Grammys, Rolling Stone referred to Blackpink as "(without a doubt) the biggest K-pop group in history, and has been for years." So of course ARMY (BTS's fandom) turning out in force, coming for Rolling Stone and bringing sales records, number of awards won, and chart performamce. the biggest K-pop group in history, and has been for years.) Within six hours, Rolling Stone had revised their article to refer to Blackpink as “the biggest K-pop girl group.” (A characterization that ONCE really ought to have something to say about.)

Music adjacent to bad machine translation

Weki Meki's Kim Doyeon won a Blue Dragon award (which seems to be the Korean equivalent of the Oscars), and her appearance on the red carpet caused quite a stir. The headline on one website uniquely expressed it by saying "Kim Do-yeon, Audrey Hepburn Reincarnation... a person who causes a single disease". I knew this was some sort of translation error, and asking the question on Threads led someone to clear it up for me. Apparently what they were trying (and failing) to say is that she is triggering an obsession for short bob haircuts.